Dating A turkish man – would actually appreciate advice from the Turkish guy please

If any human body could shed some understanding of my “relationship” having a guy that is turkish would actually enjoy it. We particularly want to hear from Turkish males. My Turkish man has resided in the united states for over ten years. He’s got a card that is greenits azure). He will not need to get hitched. He just introduced us to their relative and can perhaps not introduce us to their buddies whom be seemingly hitched to women that are turkish.

He could be Muslim and contains stated though he does not follow his faith if we ever had a child it would be Muslim, even. He often made plans beside me then would not appear. In the beginning he had been apologetic then he changed and stated we ought not to be therefore upset – despite the fact that he “disappears” and does not respond to their mobile. He has “watched” us to see if we cheat. After confronting him concerning this he stated “just what exactly? Now you split up beside me? ” No appologies. He believes he’s appropriate. Yet, he will not tell me where he goes and gets frustrated with my concerns. He informs me if we leave him alone and do not phone possibly he’ll miss me personally. Now, that i’m doing he gets angry and stated “3 times and also you do not phone as yet! I have aggravated with you due to that – exactly what are you with brand new boyfriend”

I adore this guy a great deal it’s insane and it is driving me personally insane.

I like this guy a great deal it’s insane and it’s also driving me personally insane. He stopped using me away and said the final gf he ended up being with – they lived together for 4 years and so they never ever sought out and all their buddies had been her buddies. After some guy revealed interest for you” I cried so hard in me(a guy bought me flowers) he told me to go on a “date” with this guy “don’t cheat – just get to know him, maybe he better than me. He did not care. If I did not cheat) so I did go out with this guy – I didn’t cheat just like my Turkish BF asked me I just hung out with the guy (I have never done anything like this before and I thought it was wrong – even. My BF didn’t phone me personally for several days wouldn’t normally respond to my phone phone telephone calls nor phone me personally right back. I did not like to head out because of the flowerguy but my Turkish BF made me feel therefore harmed like he didn’t care that I did so it to demonstrate him up for telling us to get it done (he could be constantly telling me personally just do it decide on this guy or that man if they appear enthusiastic about me personally – just because We am perhaps not enthusiastic about one other dudes).

Therefore following this flower man thing and after dating for a few months he split up beside me – we told him i did not cheat. He stated he had been genuine amazed if I didn’t cheat that I went out with the guy even. He then said there is lot happening and then he had been stressing over the whole thing. Things taking place from their life and from my loved ones too (as they aren’t too approving of us). He explained me me but he does not want to hurt me and to stay away that he does love. Yet I am called by him every once in awhile and desires us to keep buddies.

Since he split up with me per month ago We have maybe not dated anybody. I will be depressed. I became never ever thinking about the flower man him anyway so I wasn’t going to date. I told flower man sorry and essentially explained why i really could not date him. Turkish ex calls me personally every so often and quite often we discuss to their destination and spending some time I don’t go over with him and sometimes. Now, this he calls and asked me why I did not come over his place yet week. We said “did I am asked by you” He stated “why do i must ask” We said “We have always been extremely tired gone to sleep early. Sorry can’t come over. ” that he said “come over now, you’ve got refused me personally 6 times – we have actually counted – over it is really over between us. If you do not come” I state ” you split up beside me a thirty days ago. Have always been I nevertheless your gf? ” He said “yes” I make sure he understands “what is it some crazy turkish form of dating” he laughed. He understands i wish to be with him. He knows i enjoy him. I make sure he understands to prevent winning contests he informs me he’s maybe perhaps not games that are playing. He appears like he actually thinks he could be maybe not doing offers.

What exactly the heck is he doing? I’m not sure things to think. We am super confused. He additionally swears he would not ever cheat on me personally as soon as we were together (though, him “disappearing” appeared like he did). In addition wish to say i’m heavily Catholic – i really do a lot of praying and plenty of Novennas (9 prayers with the candles) day. He considers this “nonsense” and called me a gypsy for this and believes its “beechgraff” which I finally translated that to suggest “witchcraft” – that hurt me personally to hear since I have have confidence in Jesus and I also felt like the two of us have confidence in Jesus simply in numerous methods. That I can appreciate and respect our distinctions but he can not perform some exact same i assume.

Just what does everyone think? Many thanks for the commentary.

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